I get a lot of e-mails from guys asking ‘How do I get to date a Porn Star?‘ My advice would be, unless you are extremely open minded and literally enjoy the thought of your woman with someone else than don’t! Find a nice normal girl that’s adventurous in bed instead!
Dating a Porn Star is a relationship unlike any other and can raise a whole minefield of problems. Ok so the sex may be slightly wilder at times, but the job can cause a whole lot of issues. I’ve had so many Porn Star girlfriends that have started dating a new guy and then the next minute they are either going nuts about her job or trying to change her.
Generally they can’t deal with their girlfriend having sex with other people and the green eyed monster appears to consume everything that was once good! The thing is, the job seems exciting and glamorous to a guy to start with, then as they start to get attached to her their insecurity can take over. I’ve known of guys getting so insecure that they become controlling and want to start intervening in their girlfriends work, where they work, what they do, even trying to dictate how much they charge!
If you love somebody you don’t try to change them or control them, you accept them as they are and encourage them to be the best they can be. If I was dating you and you were a plumber, would you be happy if I started meddling and saying your prices are all wrong, or I don’t want you to work in London? It would be deemed as overly intrusive right? It’s the same thing with dating a Porn Star. Don’t forget she is going to get a lot of attention and you may end up feeling left out sometimes.
So if you have put a lot of thought into it and you are 100% certain you can cope with your Missus performing with others guys or girls without losing the plot and turning into Mr Hyde, then check out Michael McCrudden’s video below. He has some great tips!
I would also add, just because your girlfriend/date does porn for a job don’t expect her to be a performing seal on cue. Just because she might have done a scene that day where she is dipped from head to toe in chocolate and performed naughty acts whilst dangling from a chandelier, that doesn’t mean that she will necessarily want to come home, truss herself from head to toe in spandex and work through the karma sutra! If she does it’s a bonus, but don’t expect it or get jealous. Work sex is very different from personal sex, so if you want to earn her respect and have a real connection, don’t make demands or have expectations. If you are going to a date or into a relationship with these limiting beliefs, trust me, you are better off hiring an escort instead and saving the both of you a headache! Enjoy the video!
